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Please note that this article has some strong language in it and
is rather explicit. Our intention for including this is to give
you a real-life marriage that was torn apart by pornography. If
you are a man who gets into porn from time to time, you need to
be aware of how the stimulating effects of pornography follow the
law of diminishing returns. The more porn you read, the less it
stimulates you and the more of it you need to reach that same level
of stimulation. You may see it as a harmless viewing, but even if
you do not suffer a true addiction to it, it will effect
your marriage in a detrimental way. In our counseling, we find that
men who regularly submit to viewing pornography will begin to treat
their wives as objects. If you don't believe this is true, ask a
wife whose husband sees a lot of porn. She can usually tell you
when he's been into it a lot.
If you are a woman who finds herself identifying with the wife
of this letter you need to evaluate your situation. Some addictions
are so powerful that love cannot stand against them and while God
is omnipotent, He is a gentleman and will allow each man (or woman)
to have his/her own free will. If you are in a situation that is
beginning to turn abusive, please seek help. It will only escalate
if you don't find some help immediately.
The events in this letter are completely true. All situations
actually did happen.
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